A non-profit shidduch service
A shidduch office that works for you every single week.
Send in the shidduch résumé you already have. Every week our shadchanim go through the whole pool for you and bring you one thoughtful suggestion — privately, to you, never posted anywhere. When both sides say yes, a real shadchan picks up the phone and carries it the way it has always been done.
Free to join. Takes a few minutes. No forms if you have a résumé — it fills your profile out for you.
No public profiles
Nobody browses you. Your profile is seen only by vetted shadchanim and the one candidate we suggest.
One suggestion a week
Brought to you, not broadcast to everyone. Look, set aside, or pass — in private.
A real shadchan makes the shidduch
The moment both sides say yes, a shadchan speaks to both families and stays with it to the l’chaim.
How it works
Three steps. Nothing to browse.
- 1
Send in your résumé
Upload the shidduch résumé that is already going around, or fill in the short profile. You check it over and fix anything we got wrong.
- 2
We go through the pool for you
Every week the smart matching reads the whole pool — kehila, learning, family, location, what you asked for — and the shadchanim pick the one worth a real look.
- 3
Both sides say yes — a shadchan takes over
Names and details unlock only then. A real, vetted shadchan calls both families and carries the shidduch start to finish.
Your shadchanim
Real shadchanim. Not a computer.
For years the Zivugim team has sat with families, made the calls and redt shidduchim the old-fashioned way. The matching only narrows the stack so nobody sits at the bottom of a drawer — the shidduch itself is always made by a person.
Malky Hershkowits
Shadchan, Zivugim Shidduch Office
Gitty Gross
Shadchan, Zivugim Shidduch Office
Esty Cohen
Shadchan, Zivugim Shidduch Office
Who is this for?
Singles
Looking for yourself? Send in your résumé and get one private suggestion at a time.
Parents
Looking for your son or daughter? You can set up and manage the profile on their behalf.
Second marriages
Divorced or widowed — welcome, and handled b’kavodik by shadchanim who do this every day.
We're a non-profit, not a business. Nobody here is out to make a parnassah off your shidduch — the whole point is to help more singles find their zivug. Joining is free; an optional membership supports the shadchanim's work.
Common questions
Who can see my information?
Only vetted shadchanim and the one candidate we suggest — and that candidate sees limited information. Full details, names and contact unlock only when you both say yes. There is no public listing and nothing to browse.
Is looking at a suggestion a commitment?
No. Looking is private. Nothing happens until you press the button that says you are ready for the shadchan to set it up. Questions go to the shadchan in the office, not to the other side.
What does it cost?
Joining is free. An optional membership helps cover the shadchanim's time; the office will tell you about it after you sign up, and you can pause or leave any time.
I don't have internet access, or the site is blocked for me.
Call the office at (347) 809-3929 and we will set your profile up over the phone. You can also send your résumé by email and the office will take it from there.
Let the office start working for you this week.
A few minutes now. One private suggestion a week from then on.