Every single one.
The right shidduch often exists and never gets redd.
One shadchan can only keep so many names in mind. Zivugim is a shidduch office with 10+ shadchanim and a system that reads every profile, built so that nobody gets overlooked.
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Free. Confidential. Seen only by the shadchanim in our office.
“Anything doing?”
Every mother has asked a shadchan that question. The usual answer is “I'm looking into it,” and she means it. A shadchan working alone keeps hundreds of résumés in a folder and in her head. The right one can sit there for a year because the day ran out. Zivugim was built for that folder.
Our shadchanim work with a system that reads every profile and remembers every suggestion, so each of them can look after many times more singles and spend the day on the phone.
From profile to l'chaim.
Create one profile, once.
Upload the résumé and add the details only you know. It can also be done in person at the office.
Your profilePrivateRésumé uploadedThe details only you knowSeen only by our shadchanimEvery profile gets read, every week.
The system checks it against all the others and the history of past suggestions. The best fits land on the desks of our shadchanim.
3,500+ profiles, read every weekA suggestion comes to you.
Answer yes or pass, and say why if you like. Each answer sharpens the next one.
This week's suggestionSampleB. G., 28Chassidish · BrooklynChosen from 3,500+ profilesPhone and address open after a mutual yesA mutual yes, and a shadchan takes over.
She speaks to both families and stays with the shidduch until the l'chaim.
A mutual yesOne side said yesThe other side said yesA shadchan from our office calls both families.
Inside the office
Real shadchanim, with a system that multiplies what they can do.
There is a limit to how many singles one shadchan can keep in mind. Ours work with software that reads every profile and remembers every past suggestion. It shows them who could go for whom, including pairings nobody would think to try.
shadchanim at their desks, and counting
profiles, and every one is read every week
new profiles join each week, and each is checked against the rest
Heard between two desks
“I have a boy from Monsey…”
“I have someone for him.”
Each shadchan covers many times the ground she could alone, and her hours go to the phone calls.
The office is a real place. Come in by appointment or walk in, and meet the people behind it.
1259 52nd Street, Brooklyn, NY 11219
Privacy
Strictly confidential.
A profile is seen by the vetted shadchanim in our office and by nobody else. No list, no search, and no way for a neighbor to come across it. Another family sees a résumé only when it is suggested to them.
Closed until a mutual yes
A profile can be paused or removed at any time.
Four ways in
Start from where you stand.
Plans
Choose how hard the office works for you.
Every plan starts with the same confidential profile. Pick one to compare it with the others.
Where the money goes. Zivugim is a nonprofit. Plans and donations pay for shadchanim. Cancel anytime. Unsure which fits? Call (347) 809-3929.
Every single one.
Not a shadchan? Put one to work.
The right shidduch often exists and never gets redd, because nobody had the hours to get to it. Zivugim is a shidduch office built so that no single gets overlooked. A donation puts another shadchan at a desk, on the phone for the ones still waiting.
$690keeps one shadchan on the phone for a full week.
Any amount helps. Zivugim is a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit, and donations are tax-deductible.
Questions families ask.
Is this a dating site?
No. Nobody looks through singles here. Zivugim is a shidduch office, and after a mutual yes every shidduch is carried by a shadchan, by phone.
Does a computer pick my shidduch?
No. The system reads every profile and works out who could fit whom. You decide what to answer, and a shadchan takes it from a mutual yes to the l'chaim.
Who sees my profile?
The vetted shadchanim in our office, and nobody else. Another family sees a résumé only when it is suggested to them. Contact details open after a mutual yes.
How long does a profile take?
Upload the résumé you already have, then add the details only you know. An accurate profile gets better suggestions. It can also be done in person at the office.
Can a parent create the profile?
Yes, with the son's or daughter's agreement.
Can a friend do it for someone?
Yes. A friend can act as an advocate, with the single's knowledge and consent. How it works for a friend
Is this for someone divorced or widowed?
Yes. Children, custody and halachic details are asked once and kept confidential.
I already have a shadchan.
Keep her. A profile here adds 10+ shadchanim and a system that does not forget a name.
Can I stop for a while?
Yes. A profile can be paused or removed at any time.
Can I come to the office?
Yes. Come in by appointment or walk in, and meet the people behind it. 1259 52nd Street, Brooklyn, NY 11219
Do the hishtadlus.
A profile is free and confidential. Only our shadchanim see it, and the only thing that can come of it is a suggestion.